Doing homework can be a STR-U-GLE for both parents and kids. As a parent, you always want your kids to do their best, but you also don’t want to stress them out about something as inconsequential as homework. For your kid, it can be hard to focus on schoolwork because it’s actually challenging and their are so many distractions of things they’d rather be doing (like toys, shows, or ANYTHING ELSE). It’s no wonder homework can be such a challenge. So, how can you make it happen without anyone losing it?
Create a Routine
A routine is one of the simplest things to set up, but can be the hardest to stick to… at first. When done well, though, it can cut out SO much of the fighting. When creating a routine, think about what works best for your family - some families prefer having their children do homework right after school, while others might want to give their kids a break first. When creating your routine, though, try to keep each individual kid in mind. The same thing might not work for your high energy, extra social first that works for your bookworm, school-loving second. The key is consistency (with each routine… it’s okay if they’re different) - if you keep with the routine, your kids will eventually get used to it and know what’s expected. If it’s just how things are, it isn’t worth fighting.
Set Realistic Expectations
Another to get your kids to do their homework without the fight is by setting realistic expectations. If you expect too much from your child - such as completing all of their assignments at one time, or when they’re hungry or tired - they’re likely going to feel overwhelmed and discouraged before they even start. Instead, try breaking down tasks into smaller chunks that are more manageable. This helps keep them motivated and encouraged. When they have large projects, this is a time to help guide THEM to make a schedule and stick with it.
Make it Fun
For those days or assignments that really create a sense of dread for you and your kids, look for ways to make them fun. Pretend like you’re racing them to do the same assignment. After each sentence, give them a silly break. Have a fun surprise that they’re working towards and they get to know one more clue after each chunk of work they complete. The great part about this is that it’s extra adaptable to each kid. Mini breaks (think 1-3 minutes) are an easy way to break up work and add in some fun.
Getting your kids to do homework doesn't have to end in a fight… or tears! By trying these few things, you can help create an environment where learning is enjoyable and maybe even exciting for everyone involved! Give these a try and you’ll soon find that homework becomes less of a chore and more preparation for the future! Good luck!
