Doing homework can be a STR-U-GLE for both parents and kids. As a parent, you always want your kids to do their best, but you also don’t want to stress them out about something as inconsequential as homework. For your kid, it can be hard to focus on schoolwork because it’s actually challenging and their are so many distractions of things they’d rather be doing (like toys, shows, or ANYTHING ELSE). It’s no wonder homework can be such a challenge. So, how can you make it happen without anyone losing it?
Let’s face it- raising kids isn't easy. As parents and caregivers, it can be easy to resort to yelling because it feels like nothing else has worked. But, no one really LIKES yelling, and there are other, more effective ways to reach your children. Here are some tips for getting your kids to listen without yelling.
Lead by Example
I can’t count the number of times a parent has come to me, somewhat baffled, as to why their kids are whining or yelling or ignoring them or whatever other breakdown of communication. Then, after a few days getting to know the family, the answer becomes clear: Your children are whining and complaining because they observe you doing it. *cringe* It’s hard to hear, but is often the case. Children learn by example....
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